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Five To One

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When doing the deadlift, if I feel anything in my lower back at any time am i doing it wrong?
Also after the exersise I can feel something in my lower back. Its not pain but it feels like my back got a bit of the workout too.
Iv watch the correct deadlift performed a number of times and Im pretty sure I am doing it right.


Basicly I am asking should my lower back feel 100%, as if I havnt lifting a thing?


just a little paranoid about how easily it is to injure your back(or so I hear).
please enlighten me
 

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Five To One said:
When doing the deadlift, if I feel anything in my lower back at any time am i doing it wrong? NO ITS FINE
Also after the exersise I can feel something in my lower back. Its not pain but it feels like my back got a bit of the workout too. GOOD
Iv watch the correct deadlift performed a number of times and Im pretty sure I am doing it right.


Basicly I am asking should my lower back feel 100%, as if I havnt lifting a thing?
NO


just a little paranoid about how easily it is to injure your back(or so I hear) NO IT ISNT.
please enlighten me
That is all.
 

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If your hamstrings are weaker than your back, it's not unusual to be limited by your hamstrings and have your back not feel worked.

Otherwise, no, if you're properly balanced you should feel it in your lower back.
 
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