"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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deadlift grip too weak, with with straps/hooks.

spesmilitis

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The bar kept slipping away, even with I had straps. I tried using hooks, but they make my grip awkward and I don't get a good grip with em either.

I'm using cotton straps. At the fitness store, there were several kinds, I chose cotton cuz they were the cheapest. I though it was cheaper cuz it work last as long. Do the other material straps give a better grip?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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donjuanjovi

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Are you training your forearms or grip at all?
 

spesmilitis

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yah, but its not improving fast enought to keep up with my deadlift.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Your whole arms will benefit if you just lower the weight to accomodate the grip. Generally, the smaller muscles will recover faster than the bigger ones, so it shouldn't be too long before your forearms catch up, and then they won't hold you back any longer (and they'll start exploding in size too).
 
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