"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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de-matrix with these tunes!

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this is the place to post all of those music videos that inspired you to get out of the matrix. yes, all the ones, that made you say "oh snap... now i know".
let's learn through others mistakes and/ or stories...

i will start it off :
1. she says another guy is just a friend :
http://youtube.com/watch?v=Xtr5-hOjJfs

2. you begin to hate society:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=scCxx4fgJwA
http://www.lyricsfreak.com/c/candlebox/cover+me_20026886.html
http://www.lyricsfreak.com/e/eminem/the+way+i+am_20049877.html
http://youtube.com/watch?v=okK0g825jnE

3. thinking of bringing home some hooker, think again:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=MyAgPgZGDyg

4. thinking of bringing home a rich girl, think again:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=j4HO81xGvc0

5. got dumped?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=URz1qJ3aC4M
http://youtube.com/watch?v=10C68Gzd5GM

6. lost a friend?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=rSp-cSJNGdQ

7. pissed?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=DaqxGRYnvHU
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You say he is just a friend... love it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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