"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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de-matrix with these tunes!

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this is the place to post all of those music videos that inspired you to get out of the matrix. yes, all the ones, that made you say "oh snap... now i know".
let's learn through others mistakes and/ or stories...

i will start it off :
1. she says another guy is just a friend :
http://youtube.com/watch?v=Xtr5-hOjJfs

2. you begin to hate society:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=scCxx4fgJwA
http://www.lyricsfreak.com/c/candlebox/cover+me_20026886.html
http://www.lyricsfreak.com/e/eminem/the+way+i+am_20049877.html
http://youtube.com/watch?v=okK0g825jnE

3. thinking of bringing home some hooker, think again:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=MyAgPgZGDyg

4. thinking of bringing home a rich girl, think again:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=j4HO81xGvc0

5. got dumped?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=URz1qJ3aC4M
http://youtube.com/watch?v=10C68Gzd5GM

6. lost a friend?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=rSp-cSJNGdQ

7. pissed?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=DaqxGRYnvHU
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You say he is just a friend... love it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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