"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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de-matrix with these tunes!

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this is the place to post all of those music videos that inspired you to get out of the matrix. yes, all the ones, that made you say "oh snap... now i know".
let's learn through others mistakes and/ or stories...

i will start it off :
1. she says another guy is just a friend :
http://youtube.com/watch?v=Xtr5-hOjJfs

2. you begin to hate society:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=scCxx4fgJwA
http://www.lyricsfreak.com/c/candlebox/cover+me_20026886.html
http://www.lyricsfreak.com/e/eminem/the+way+i+am_20049877.html
http://youtube.com/watch?v=okK0g825jnE

3. thinking of bringing home some hooker, think again:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=MyAgPgZGDyg

4. thinking of bringing home a rich girl, think again:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=j4HO81xGvc0

5. got dumped?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=URz1qJ3aC4M
http://youtube.com/watch?v=10C68Gzd5GM

6. lost a friend?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=rSp-cSJNGdQ

7. pissed?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=DaqxGRYnvHU
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You say he is just a friend... love it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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