"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Daygame rejection "I don't give out my number to a cheap hobo like you"

Was that a **** test or disrespectful rejection?

  • **** Test

    Votes: 1 6.3%
  • Disrespectful Rejection

    Votes: 15 93.8%

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Suspens

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I just approached this HB1000[looks/body] today around a downtown area and here is how our "conversation" went.

Me: Hey, give me your number so we could schedule a meetup.
HB: Excuse me, WHAT did you see in yourself which allowed you to come up with this delusional request?
Me: [ignored her BS] Or alternatively you can save my number so you could call me whenever you feel comfortable?
HB: I don't give out my number to a cheap hobo like you
Me: [serious tone] Your ****ing nose needs rhinoplasty, because you look like a sawfish
HB: [nervous mumbling tone] your face. (her grammar failed due to the severity of my comeback I think:lol:)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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cola

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I just approached this HB1000[looks/body] today around a downtown area and here is how our "conversation" went.

Me: Hey, give me your number so we could schedule a meetup.
You build no comfort, no rapport. Even if you get numbers this way they will be useless.
HB:
Excuse me, WHAT did you see in yourself which allowed you to come up with this delusional request?
This is a person with serious ego issues and you dodged a bullet.
Me:
[ignored her BS] Or alternatively you can save my number so you could call me whenever you feel comfortable?
Great mindset on your part to stay unphased by her disrespect.
HB:
I don't give out my number to a cheap hobo like you
I find it interesting that she described you as "cheap" .. It says two things: 1. she has an agenda she is looking for a man with wealth.
2. I just find it odd that of all things she associated you with "cheapness" without even knowing you. Did you have on poor fitting clothes or old clothes?


Me: [serious tone] Your ****ing nose needs rhinoplasty, because you look like a sawfish
Childish on your part
HB:
[nervous mumbling tone] your face. (her grammar failed due to the severity of my comeback I think:lol:)
Childish on her part.
 

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In all seriousness, WTF did you expect when you came across like this to a hot chick?

Why not do something less assertive but still get your point across?

Me: Hey how are you this Thursday?
Her: Its Friday.
Me: I guess when you're as busy as I am, its easy to lose track. So is your Friday better than your Thursday?
Her: Yeah, at least its almost the weekend.
Me: Yes it is. Any big plans or anything exciting going on this weekend, since it is almost here now that its actually Friday.....
Her: Yeah I am going out with some friends tonight and blah blah blah....
Me: Hey I have to run but i would like to continue this convo later. Why dont you thrown your number in my phone and we can catch up when I get my bearings straight on what day it is lol.
 

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Excuse me, WHAT did you see inyourself which allowed you to come up with this delusional request?

Your reply -- wink smile, you take care then.

Then you next her. No more dialogue with her ever again
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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RangerMIke

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@cola has been gone too long. He is right, you didn't build rapport... But she also didn't like you, even if you had built rapport you likely would have been rejected anyway, but she may have been less rude.
 

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Definitely got to give you props for having the balls to do this, regardless of the outcome. Nice.
Right? You have to be willing to burn some down now and again.

I think there's always a tendency to look at the one interaction the OP presents here on SS and assume it's entirely representative of who he is, where his game is at.

Of course it's not. People aren't posting about the interactions that go textbook smooth. Who wants to hear about that? We post about the aberrations because they're interesting. We just need to keep in mind that's what they are before we go sh!tting all over the OP.

And you know who's doing most of the sh!tting? Guys who never, ever post about their own fvck ups.
 

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She didn't like your ass that's for sure, she told you that in her first sentance. She also thought you're high as a kite going for number without establishing rapport and introducing yourself.
 
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Her: "I don't give my number to cheap hoboes like you."

You: "Oh? So, what kind of cheap hoboes DO you give your number to?"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SmooveMooves

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Sounds like she didn't see you as on her level. Whether it be on the attraction scale or status. If you want future success with hb1000 women you have to present yourself as on or above her level. This is done through a prime appearance and status symbols.

Her cheap hobo comment is an observation -- Even if it's a stuck up bítchy comment. These women are more accessible through social circles.
 

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Rapport is irrelevant. Nothing you said wouldd have made a difference. She wasn't interested.

"Rapport" really is probing to see if she has any buying signals. An interested woman doesn't really care what you say, so long as you aren't disrespectful and you ask for the number.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I just approached this HB1000[looks/body] today around a downtown area and here is how our "conversation" went.

Me: Hey, give me your number so we could schedule a meetup.
HB: Excuse me, WHAT did you see in yourself which allowed you to come up with this delusional request?
Me: [ignored her BS] Or alternatively you can save my number so you could call me whenever you feel comfortable?
HB: I don't give out my number to a cheap hobo like you
Me: [serious tone] Your ****ing nose needs rhinoplasty, because you look like a sawfish
HB: [nervous mumbling tone] your face. (her grammar failed due to the severity of my comeback I think:lol:)
You cold approached a 10/10 and said 'give me your number?'
You told her 'you freaking nose needs rhinoplasty?'

Yeah bro you are trolling or this is made up for you to sit back and get a kick out of all the reactions.
 

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You cold approached a 10/10 and said 'give me your number?'
You told her 'you freaking nose needs rhinoplasty?'

Yeah bro you are trolling or this is made up for you to sit back and get a kick out of all the reactions.
Yo jealous bro?

Sounds like she didn't see you as on her level. Whether it be on the attraction scale or status.
My observation is that she was from a poverty-stricken family and finding a financial-saviour is her #1 priority. Another possibility is that she is already in a relationship with a weak manipulative beta, and for whatever reason she can't get out of this relationship, so she vents out the negativity by burning stranger guys who approach her.


Excuse me, WHAT did you see inyourself which allowed you to come up with this delusional request?

Your reply -- wink smile, you take care then.

Then you next her. No more dialogue with her ever again
Wouldn't just leaving inflate her EGO even further?

I have a hard time with these kinds of "prepared" conversations. If some random stranger approaches a girl, during the day, no matter what he talks about, she knows he wants to F her in every hole possible. So asking about the calendar and weather seems pretty in-genuine to me.
 

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You cold approached a 10/10 and said 'give me your number?'
You told her 'you freaking nose needs rhinoplasty?'

Yeah bro you are trolling or this is made up for you to sit back and get a kick out of all the reactions.
Yo jealous bro?

Sounds like she didn't see you as on her level. Whether it be on the attraction scale or status.
My observation is that she was from a poverty-stricken family and finding a financial-saviour is her #1 priority. Another possibility is that she is already in a relationship with a weak manipulative beta, and for whatever reason she can't get out of this relationship, so she vents out the negativity by burning stranger guys who approach her.


Excuse me, WHAT did you see inyourself which allowed you to come up with this delusional request?

Your reply -- wink smile, you take care then.

Then you next her. No more dialogue with her ever again
Wouldn't just leaving inflate her EGO even further?

I have a hard time with these kinds of "prepared" conversations. If some random stranger approaches a girl, during the day, no matter what he talks about, she knows he wants to F her in every hole possible. So asking about the calendar and weather seems pretty in-genuine to me.


I find it interesting that she described you as "cheap" .. It says two things: 1. she has an agenda she is looking for a man with wealth.
2. I just find it odd that of all things she associated you with "cheapness" without even knowing you. Did you have on poor fitting clothes or old clothes?
My face was unshaven and my T-Shirt was loose and had washed out colors.


F her... And who uses the term "hobo" anymore ?
I just used an equivalent term when translating my convo. (I am from a non-enlish speaking area)
 

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Nah bro. Not really jealous of you insulting a girls appearance because they refused to go out with you.
Actually she insulted him, I don't blame him for shooting back. Though, I think he could of nixed the rhinoplasty part. Whole point was to get her interested, and one upping her isn't going to do the trick.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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