“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Daygame over 40. Thoughts?

johnnybravo

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Despite doing it regardless, I'm pretty self-conscious about it. Then again I was pretty self-conscious about pick up in my 20s and 30s too, but now I have a more plausible excuse for thinking people are judging me. Any other dirty old men out there hitting on 20 yr olds during the day? How's it going for you?
 

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Well, I hit on a girl I know (have known her for 10 years) recently. She is 28, I'm 47. Just kissed, but hopefully something more might happen in the near future.
 

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Despite doing it regardless, I'm pretty self-conscious about it. Then again I was pretty self-conscious about pick up in my 20s and 30s too, but now I have a more plausible excuse for thinking people are judging me. Any other dirty old men out there hitting on 20 yr olds during the day? How's it going for you?
Do it while you are out and about in the course of your normal activities...shopping, walking, going to work, etc.

When you see an opportunity, take it.
 

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You have to be very discreet. Make conversations and gauge interest.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Any other dirty old men out there hitting on 20 yr olds during the day? How's it going for you?
Ever since I stopped conceptualizing and approaching this as "game", rather than what it actually is(Part of being a heterosexual man), things have gone extremely well
 

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I'm 36 so maybe my opinion might not be valid, since I'm yet to reach the 40 mark (Which I commend you guys on doing so btw).

But, gamewise, there is no day, night or bar game.

Nothing is game, and everything is game.
The game is always on.

You will interact with many people ramdomly, so there is no need for you to actively be on pursue mode.
As said above, that reeks desperation, and women can smell it from afar.

Do your stuff diligentely, be happy about your self and your life, interact normally with people, get them on your positive mood so they are in your frame not the other way around.

And, when one of those people happen to be a hot chick you are attracted for, just go for the number. High chances you will get it.
 
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