"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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day game opener question

garruk

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alot of times ill be walking somewhere on campus and ill make steady eye contact with a cute girl, but we'll walk right by eachtoerh becuase honestly... i have no idea what to say.


it's not like talking to someone at the grocery or book store where they are all already stationary.

are any of you able to stop a girl (whose clearly somewhat interested) and get her into a conversation?

any ideas? i know you must all have experienced this before.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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trrush

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say "hello" would be a nice start, but really, if she's walking to her next class, your success rate to start a convo would be low.
 

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Generally direct game would be a smart move in these situations, and if you have limited time, you might as well see if there's any mutual interest right off the bat to move on with what you need to do.

So yes, works great if you are confident enough to do direct game. If you aren't confident enough yet, you have a lot of practicing to do and inner game/self improvement to do. Also, these interactions do generally end up with a small convo that can be continued later, especially on a campus. Couldn't be easier in a college environment.
 

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PDubb75

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"You're going the wrong way! :) "

Bound to get her attention. Gives you a perfect chance for C&F and to introduce yourself.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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diabolicplans

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Make sure you have a bug with you and when she's nearby drop it. When she gets closer, say oh look there's a bug by your feet. Then you can be your hero or something. If she's not afraid of bugs and she steps on it, you still have a conversation topic to go, either way you're in advantage :whistle:
 

IamJosan

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I've always thought about this and what I've come to realize was that I needed a reason to talk them. A reason could be getting an opinion on something, or talking about something you see at the store, or whatever. But then I realized that the reason to talk to a cute girl is because she IS cute!

So if you need a reason to talk to a cute girl, use the reason she caught your eye, because she's cute! :D
 
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