"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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day game opener question

garruk

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alot of times ill be walking somewhere on campus and ill make steady eye contact with a cute girl, but we'll walk right by eachtoerh becuase honestly... i have no idea what to say.


it's not like talking to someone at the grocery or book store where they are all already stationary.

are any of you able to stop a girl (whose clearly somewhat interested) and get her into a conversation?

any ideas? i know you must all have experienced this before.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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trrush

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say "hello" would be a nice start, but really, if she's walking to her next class, your success rate to start a convo would be low.
 

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Generally direct game would be a smart move in these situations, and if you have limited time, you might as well see if there's any mutual interest right off the bat to move on with what you need to do.

So yes, works great if you are confident enough to do direct game. If you aren't confident enough yet, you have a lot of practicing to do and inner game/self improvement to do. Also, these interactions do generally end up with a small convo that can be continued later, especially on a campus. Couldn't be easier in a college environment.
 

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PDubb75

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"You're going the wrong way! :) "

Bound to get her attention. Gives you a perfect chance for C&F and to introduce yourself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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diabolicplans

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Make sure you have a bug with you and when she's nearby drop it. When she gets closer, say oh look there's a bug by your feet. Then you can be your hero or something. If she's not afraid of bugs and she steps on it, you still have a conversation topic to go, either way you're in advantage :whistle:
 

IamJosan

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I've always thought about this and what I've come to realize was that I needed a reason to talk them. A reason could be getting an opinion on something, or talking about something you see at the store, or whatever. But then I realized that the reason to talk to a cute girl is because she IS cute!

So if you need a reason to talk to a cute girl, use the reason she caught your eye, because she's cute! :D
 
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