“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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garruk

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alot of times ill be walking somewhere on campus and ill make steady eye contact with a cute girl, but we'll walk right by eachtoerh becuase honestly... i have no idea what to say.


it's not like talking to someone at the grocery or book store where they are all already stationary.

are any of you able to stop a girl (whose clearly somewhat interested) and get her into a conversation?

any ideas? i know you must all have experienced this before.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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say "hello" would be a nice start, but really, if she's walking to her next class, your success rate to start a convo would be low.
 

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Generally direct game would be a smart move in these situations, and if you have limited time, you might as well see if there's any mutual interest right off the bat to move on with what you need to do.

So yes, works great if you are confident enough to do direct game. If you aren't confident enough yet, you have a lot of practicing to do and inner game/self improvement to do. Also, these interactions do generally end up with a small convo that can be continued later, especially on a campus. Couldn't be easier in a college environment.
 

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"You're going the wrong way! :) "

Bound to get her attention. Gives you a perfect chance for C&F and to introduce yourself.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Make sure you have a bug with you and when she's nearby drop it. When she gets closer, say oh look there's a bug by your feet. Then you can be your hero or something. If she's not afraid of bugs and she steps on it, you still have a conversation topic to go, either way you're in advantage :whistle:
 

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I've always thought about this and what I've come to realize was that I needed a reason to talk them. A reason could be getting an opinion on something, or talking about something you see at the store, or whatever. But then I realized that the reason to talk to a cute girl is because she IS cute!

So if you need a reason to talk to a cute girl, use the reason she caught your eye, because she's cute! :D
 
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