"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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day game opener question

garruk

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alot of times ill be walking somewhere on campus and ill make steady eye contact with a cute girl, but we'll walk right by eachtoerh becuase honestly... i have no idea what to say.


it's not like talking to someone at the grocery or book store where they are all already stationary.

are any of you able to stop a girl (whose clearly somewhat interested) and get her into a conversation?

any ideas? i know you must all have experienced this before.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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trrush

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say "hello" would be a nice start, but really, if she's walking to her next class, your success rate to start a convo would be low.
 

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Generally direct game would be a smart move in these situations, and if you have limited time, you might as well see if there's any mutual interest right off the bat to move on with what you need to do.

So yes, works great if you are confident enough to do direct game. If you aren't confident enough yet, you have a lot of practicing to do and inner game/self improvement to do. Also, these interactions do generally end up with a small convo that can be continued later, especially on a campus. Couldn't be easier in a college environment.
 

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"You're going the wrong way! :) "

Bound to get her attention. Gives you a perfect chance for C&F and to introduce yourself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Make sure you have a bug with you and when she's nearby drop it. When she gets closer, say oh look there's a bug by your feet. Then you can be your hero or something. If she's not afraid of bugs and she steps on it, you still have a conversation topic to go, either way you're in advantage :whistle:
 

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I've always thought about this and what I've come to realize was that I needed a reason to talk them. A reason could be getting an opinion on something, or talking about something you see at the store, or whatever. But then I realized that the reason to talk to a cute girl is because she IS cute!

So if you need a reason to talk to a cute girl, use the reason she caught your eye, because she's cute! :D
 
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