David D is anti smile?

[Ricky]

The problem with all of the methods can be that you can become an information junkie, a keyboard jockey and never go out and practice.

Trust me I've done it and still do it!

 

[Ricky]

I came across this in a pdf called art of seduction by exceed international (not the robert greene one!)

Just be friendly and smile (but in
appropriate doses, avoid having a grin on your
face ALL THE TIME, guys that are smiling for
hours in a row look terribly insecure and just
plain pathetic).

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by Recluce
IMO his material is a great place to start because it points out many small details that most guys would never even think about. he outlines some typical situations with women which make great crutches for getting into dating and developing your game.

IMO obsessing with the minor details is the WORST place to start.

 

[englishcrap]

It took me along while to fathom this out. If smiling comes natural and its part of you then do smile.

Dont try to smile because you feel you have to smile. Learn to caliberate and understand what DD is trying to say.

 

[djbr]

I like almost everything David D. says about the inner game. He has a optimist take on everything, a powerful positive message.

But when it comes to the technique realm, he starts to detail everything HE does. The problem: what HE does may get chicks FOR HIM, but it can become silly as dope if I try it.

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Now I read the MindOverMatter reply. I left what I wrote first for anyone who's interested.

But I agree 101% with MindOverMatter. That's it. If you don't like yourself in the first place, no amount of just be yourself (which is the same as JUST BE A DORK when you're one) will solve your problem.

Let's forget these silly techniques a little bit. One day it will get old don't you think? What about you?

Become the person you want to be is the first thing you have to do to attract quality women. You can learn some SS/DYD/MyAssWhatever, but until you recognize and better yourself, all time learning this "techniques on women" is badly spent.

edit: not to mention you'll be here at SoSuave for ever asking questions everytime something unpredictable happens. True confidence comes from self-respect. "Smile/no smile", "talk like this/like that" will NOT bring that to you!

 

[upcomingDJ]

try this:

1) smile a lot during the conversation, use kino, and all that friendly stuff

2) (on the same girl) don't smile as much, little or no kino, let her do most of the talking (acting as if she has to prove something to YOU)

after doing both, if she positively reciprocates on both behaviors then it doesn't matter, i used both and number closed easily.. OR if you're really good, you could try to mix both