"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dating younger women tips from a 40's guy

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bob2007

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I've never done well with women 24 and younger, they have too much optimism and nothing realistic. Talking to them is like talking to a textbook and mainstream bs. They are idealistic and no substance. I find it hard for me to connect with them and vice versa.

I prefer women in this age category 18-24. But my life experience having lived in 5 diff countries makes me sound like a grandpa I think.
I feel like I have to pretend to love obama, ellen, lgbt, me2, blm, every movement and then some.
 
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