"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dating younger women tips from a 40's guy

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've never done well with women 24 and younger, they have too much optimism and nothing realistic. Talking to them is like talking to a textbook and mainstream bs. They are idealistic and no substance. I find it hard for me to connect with them and vice versa.

I prefer women in this age category 18-24. But my life experience having lived in 5 diff countries makes me sound like a grandpa I think.
I feel like I have to pretend to love obama, ellen, lgbt, me2, blm, every movement and then some.
 
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