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Dating younger women tips from a 40's guy

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My conversations-date-lay with a 26 yo accountant that self's explanatory in below attachments.


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And a date is set.

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And after buying her a cheap fried mee and bringing her 2 see mission impossible, I did the possible - bedded her good and left.
 

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My bad, I've forgotten to translate some of the words in the text.

Some of it is a slang but I trust most will understand the concept.
 

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My bad, I've forgotten to translate some of the words in the text.

Some of it is a slang but I trust most will understand the concept.
Your killing it on the 2/3 "golden ratio". You respond about 1/5 of her, she just bleeding out showing interest to communicate. How did you get this started from the beginning?
 

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It's a summary;

Bumped into her at a bar last week.

I was bone tired and wanted a quick beer before heading home.

A group of 5 girls sat next to my table and was gossiping abt their lady boss; b1tch and every known swear word was said.

Couldn't help overhearing it, and wanting them to hush down to hv some peace, I turned around and said it's easily solved; get ur lady boss some good fvck.

I went back 2 ignoring them, didn't do much good, seems to have fired them up instead.

One of the hot girls invited me to sit over, ignored her, she got persistent and offered 2 buy me a drink, I replied that's it's against my principles to accept drinks from strangers, told her maybe after we got to know each other better I would consider it then I ignored her. This got the other ladies laughing. I ignored it too, continued sipping my beer and reading/responding to emails.

10 mins in, I stood up paid the bill for my drink, took out my business card and handed it over 2 the girl that was the most modestly dressed amongst them all.

I left.

A few days later she messages me and we joked abt her lady boss s€xual needs.

The rest is on the chat that I've posted.
 

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It's a summary;

Bumped into her at a bar last week.

I was bone tired and wanted a quick beer before heading home.

A group of 5 girls sat next to my table and was gossiping abt their lady boss; b1tch and every known swear word was said.

Couldn't help overhearing it, and wanting them to hush down to hv some peace, I turned around and said it's easily solved; get ur lady boss some good fvck.

I went back 2 ignoring them, didn't do much good, seems to have fired them up instead.

One of the hot girls invited me to sit over, ignored her, she got persistent and offered 2 buy me a drink, I replied that's it's against my principles to accept drinks from strangers, told her maybe after we got to know each other better I would consider it then I ignored her. This got the other ladies laughing. I ignored it too, continued sipping my beer and reading/responding to emails.

10 mins in, I stood up paid the bill for my drink, took out my business card and handed it over 2 the girl that was the most modestly dressed amongst them all.

I left.

A few days later she messages me and we joked abt her lady boss s€xual needs.

The rest is on the chat that I've posted.
Sharp as a tack! Going after the least impressively dressed one is great strategy. The others want the attention she wanted to have fun.
 

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Not strategy, purely prefer those feminine types.

Hot tight super mini sized - dressed up women although looks good on the outside, imo it's a cover up for everything else that's lacking.

The feminine type moans and trashes properly when in the throes of passion, plus I find their conversation amusingly refreshing.
 

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More conversation and it's time to slowly let it die off....

Perhaps another bang and motivating her to search for the one true man (which is not me)
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Dude. You got her crushed. She's eating out the palm of your hands
 

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Great stuff OP.

What happened to this plate? U still spinning her?
If not, how many time you banged her and why do you think the plate drop?
 

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Great stuff OP.

What happened to this plate? U still spinning her?
If not, how many time you banged her and why do you think the plate drop?
Banged her for 3 weeks or so and then slowly dropped her.

Nightspot picks will be dropped even when everything seems good.
 

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Nightspot picks will be dropped even when everything seems good.
Why?

To avoid incoming drama?

Because they aren´t ltr material?
 

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Why?

To avoid incoming drama?

Because they aren´t ltr material?
None of the above.

Maybe it's instinct or just plain preference on my part and I've been doing the same since my early 20's up to now.
 

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How those the dropping down of the plate usualy goes, you just stop awsering their txt/calls slowly?
Much drama?
 

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This particular lady was a fling. Easy dropping her as the bonds weren't there.

Plates are completely different, age dependent (teens, 20's, 30's) and also if they're been with you over 1 year.

How I manage it is highly dependent on what I've mentioned above.
 

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This particular lady was a fling. Easy dropping her as the bonds weren't there.

Plates are completely different, age dependent (teens, 20's, 30's) and also if they're been with you over 1 year.

How I manage it is highly dependent on what I've mentioned above.
Any pointers to dealing with different ages? As a young and ignorant man I simply didn't like to spend time around women who weren't giving me sex. So there was no over thinking. Things worked great, I kept it moving unless she was into me....

So today as a 40's. I notice I have issue with women about 7 and greater years apart. Due to generational differences. I'm getting mad love from older women though. Youngers some do like me, but the game is a bit different when I was that age and I don't feel I've nailed it. Any pointers?
 

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Any old women who gets a younger man will shower him with lots of "mad love". That's no secret. Don't bother dating older chicks, they're biologically irrelevant and should be treated as such.

If u r dating women into their 30's then her objective will be to settle down ASAP. It's not generational differences.

Go date women in their 20's. Lead them into ur frame.

There's a few men here dating women in their 20's.
 

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Any old women who gets a younger man will shower him with lots of "mad love". That's no secret. Don't bother dating older chicks, they're biologically irrelevant and should be treated as such.

If u r dating women into their 30's then her objective will be to settle down ASAP. It's not generational differences.

Go date women in their 20's. Lead them into ur frame.

There's a few men here dating women in their 20's.
Hardest age group to spin women wanting to settle down asap?
 
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