I live on my own so all my expenses go to my house, bills food ect. and i am saving up for a vacation. I honestly dont mind walking and taking public transit, but no having a car just seems like dating will be a lot more difficult. Are any DJ's out there in a similar situation?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dating without a ride
- Thread starter CJE666
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
when i first got clean off drugs about 8 years ago my friends basically just took my car keys from me for 6 months and they were right i would have went right back lol. but still i was without a car and I dated. At first i was kinda self concious about it, i'd let girls know i have a car i just can't drive now but **** after a while i really didn't ve a **** and neither did they. more than once a date and i walked to a resturant. i'd have girls drive me to the gym and one girl even would let me use her car while she was in nursing school as long as i picked her up when she got out. none of them could have cared less.
Harry Wilmington
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Here's the thing about not having a car: if she likes you and you're doing everything else right, you not having a car won't be a big deal to her. However, it will also be a gauge for you to find out when she starts LOSING interest - that's when you'll start hearing things like "oh, I wish you had a car" or "I wish I didn't have to do all the driving..."
Scars
Master Don Juan
Date a girl with a car and high interest.
It's kind of the same situation when I was younger living with my mom and couldn't bring girls over. I'd find girls that I could date that could have me over easily (whether it was cool parents or them living on their own.) Worked for me.
-Scars
It's kind of the same situation when I was younger living with my mom and couldn't bring girls over. I'd find girls that I could date that could have me over easily (whether it was cool parents or them living on their own.) Worked for me.
-Scars
sighsigh
Don Juan
She won't care. Just explain your reasonable reasons for not having a car.
You can ask her to meet you wherever you set up the date. It's probably best to do that anyways, car or not. It makes the date more casual (and hence fun) and you don't have to make small talk with her while driving. I actually don't see any advantage at all in driving her yourself to the date destination.
You can ask her to meet you wherever you set up the date. It's probably best to do that anyways, car or not. It makes the date more casual (and hence fun) and you don't have to make small talk with her while driving. I actually don't see any advantage at all in driving her yourself to the date destination.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
