I live on my own so all my expenses go to my house, bills food ect. and i am saving up for a vacation. I honestly dont mind walking and taking public transit, but no having a car just seems like dating will be a lot more difficult. Are any DJ's out there in a similar situation?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dating without a ride
- Thread starter CJE666
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
when i first got clean off drugs about 8 years ago my friends basically just took my car keys from me for 6 months and they were right i would have went right back lol. but still i was without a car and I dated. At first i was kinda self concious about it, i'd let girls know i have a car i just can't drive now but **** after a while i really didn't ve a **** and neither did they. more than once a date and i walked to a resturant. i'd have girls drive me to the gym and one girl even would let me use her car while she was in nursing school as long as i picked her up when she got out. none of them could have cared less.
Harry Wilmington
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Here's the thing about not having a car: if she likes you and you're doing everything else right, you not having a car won't be a big deal to her. However, it will also be a gauge for you to find out when she starts LOSING interest - that's when you'll start hearing things like "oh, I wish you had a car" or "I wish I didn't have to do all the driving..."
Scars
Master Don Juan
Date a girl with a car and high interest.
It's kind of the same situation when I was younger living with my mom and couldn't bring girls over. I'd find girls that I could date that could have me over easily (whether it was cool parents or them living on their own.) Worked for me.
-Scars
It's kind of the same situation when I was younger living with my mom and couldn't bring girls over. I'd find girls that I could date that could have me over easily (whether it was cool parents or them living on their own.) Worked for me.
-Scars
sighsigh
Don Juan
She won't care. Just explain your reasonable reasons for not having a car.
You can ask her to meet you wherever you set up the date. It's probably best to do that anyways, car or not. It makes the date more casual (and hence fun) and you don't have to make small talk with her while driving. I actually don't see any advantage at all in driving her yourself to the date destination.
You can ask her to meet you wherever you set up the date. It's probably best to do that anyways, car or not. It makes the date more casual (and hence fun) and you don't have to make small talk with her while driving. I actually don't see any advantage at all in driving her yourself to the date destination.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
