Dating unhappy women

[cityboy989]

What are your thoughts on dating an unhappy woman? Let's say a woman with alot of baggage who is yearning for something good to happen to her (a.k.a. a guy to come into her life and save her. I guess "captain save a ho" is a fitting term here.) In my opinion, these type of people go through a phase, maybe for several months, where they believe this person is making them so happy and filling them up/"completing" them. But after this phase, they realize they're ultimately still not happy and pull away...and at some point, sabotage the relationship. Thoughts?

 

[wifehunter]

 

[Serenity]

Thoughts? Yes, it's a bad idea.
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[mrgoodstuff]

Thoughts? Yes, it's a bad idea.
/thread

They end up dragging you down.

 

[bigneil]

What are your thoughts on dating an unhappy woman? Let's say a woman with alot of baggage who is yearning for something good to happen to her (a.k.a. a guy to come into her life and save her. I guess "captain save a ho" is a fitting term here.) In my opinion, these type of people go through a phase, maybe for several months, where they believe this person is making them so happy and filling them up/"completing" them. But after this phase, they realize they're ultimately still not happy and pull away...and at some point, sabotage the relationship. Thoughts?

Ivar, aka Mikeman, aka pelvischestly, is that you?

 

[cityboy989]

I don't get it

 

[wifehunter]

I don't get it

 

[dude99]

What are your thoughts on dating an unhappy woman? Let's say a woman with alot of baggage who is yearning for something good to happen to her (a.k.a. a guy to come into her life and save her. I guess "captain save a ho" is a fitting term here.) In my opinion, these type of people go through a phase, maybe for several months, where they believe this person is making them so happy and filling them up/"completing" them. But after this phase, they realize they're ultimately still not happy and pull away...and at some point, sabotage the relationship. Thoughts?

Just say no.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

There's no worse position to be in than being the source and center of someone else's happiness. Women like this will spiral into a state of depression simply because you didn't respond to their text message within 10 minutes. F*ck that.

How's that bad? You basically control her at that point. And as long as you don't care about her, then she will always be coming back to you.

 

[AlphaNate]

Dating? No. Hell no.

Spinning? Sure, at your own risk.

 

[wifehunter]

Constantly having to reassure someone that nothing is wrong and that I was just busy gets pretty old, pretty fast with me.

Aka "High maintenance"

 

[cityboy989]

Unhappy women don't have to be clingy women who get mad if you don't respond in a few minutes. I'm speaking more on women who use guys short-term (several months to a year) to fill a void.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Yup

 

[randalljohnson]

They're one and the same in my experience.

You may have a point there

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Aka "High maintenance"

Exactly this, even when they spout out their mouth that they are frugile and don’t blow money to be happy. All bs.

 

[bigneil]

Unhappy = unhappy with you.

 

[randalljohnson]

Unhappy = unhappy with you.

No, unhappy in life. Meaning unhappy when they're single also.

 

[dude99]

No, unhappy in life. Meaning unhappy when they're single also.

What bigneil is pointing out is they will ALSO be unhappy with you. And when they are high maintenence like that you being with them gives them someone to blame.

Your fault or not. They will blame you.

 

[bigneil]

No, unhappy in life. Meaning unhappy when they're single also.

You can't make them happy willfully. It either happens automatically or never.

 

[Masculinity]

What are your thoughts on dating an unhappy woman? Let's say a woman with alot of baggage who is yearning for something good to happen to her (a.k.a. a guy to come into her life and save her. I guess "captain save a ho" is a fitting term here.) In my opinion, these type of people go through a phase, maybe for several months, where they believe this person is making them so happy and filling them up/"completing" them. But after this phase, they realize they're ultimately still not happy and pull away...and at some point, sabotage the relationship. Thoughts?

Avoid like the plague.