"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dating/Social sites in Mexico?

Leporello

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So I'll be moving to Mexico in a few months and I was wondering what sites a are good for meeting girls.

I've checked out the more well-known dating sites (amor.com, MexicanCupid etc) and they seem to have like 15 active members in a given area.

Is online dating not really a thing in Mexico? That's fine, but I was hoping to hit the ground running when I arrive there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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aim22

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Leporello said:
So I'll be moving to Mexico in a few months and I was wondering what sites a are good for meeting girls.

I've checked out the more well-known dating sites (amor.com, MexicanCupid etc) and they seem to have like 15 active members in a given area.

Is online dating not really a thing in Mexico? That's fine, but I was hoping to hit the ground running when I arrive there.
As you say, online dating sites are not really a thing there. You'll have more luck (finding more girls, that is) with apps like badoo or tinder, and then it depends where you go to. In very few cities you'll find someone above a 4 or 5 via online dating.
 

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As you say, online dating sites are not really a thing there. You'll have more luck (finding more girls, that is) with apps like badoo or tinder, and then it depends where you go to. In very few cities you'll find someone above a 4 or 5 via online dating.
Is Badoo still worth the time, or is it choked with fakes?
 

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Is Badoo still worth the time, or is it choked with fakes?
That I don't know. Don't really use it, only know friends who did. But you'd be better off joining a social circle as soon as you get there, we are very welcoming to foreigners. If you're outgoing and not ****y you'll have no problems making friends. Plus, Mexican girls like gringos. :)
 

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Im a mexican and of course I can help you but first of all with city are you moving?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Leporello

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Casillas said:
Im a mexican and of course I can help you but first of all with city are you moving?
Guadalajara.
 

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Guadalajara.
Ok you are in luck, tons of hot girls there. A little bit more on the conservative side so don't expect a lot of ONS. Tinder might actually work there, can't guarantee it though.
 

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Guadalajara.
Tinder and Happn are a good option, also you can go to "La Santa" is a nightclub with hot babes. You can visit also Mexico City with a lot of places to meet girls.
 

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Ok you are in luck, tons of hot girls there. A little bit more on the conservative side so don't expect a lot of ONS. Tinder might actually work there, can't guarantee it though.
Yeah man that's what I hear...I don't mind waiting a bit if the quality is good.

If I can make some Mexican friends I should be ok.
 
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