"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dating/Social sites in Mexico?

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So I'll be moving to Mexico in a few months and I was wondering what sites a are good for meeting girls.

I've checked out the more well-known dating sites (amor.com, MexicanCupid etc) and they seem to have like 15 active members in a given area.

Is online dating not really a thing in Mexico? That's fine, but I was hoping to hit the ground running when I arrive there.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Leporello said:
So I'll be moving to Mexico in a few months and I was wondering what sites a are good for meeting girls.

I've checked out the more well-known dating sites (amor.com, MexicanCupid etc) and they seem to have like 15 active members in a given area.

Is online dating not really a thing in Mexico? That's fine, but I was hoping to hit the ground running when I arrive there.
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As you say, online dating sites are not really a thing there. You'll have more luck (finding more girls, that is) with apps like badoo or tinder, and then it depends where you go to. In very few cities you'll find someone above a 4 or 5 via online dating.
 
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As you say, online dating sites are not really a thing there. You'll have more luck (finding more girls, that is) with apps like badoo or tinder, and then it depends where you go to. In very few cities you'll find someone above a 4 or 5 via online dating.
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Is Badoo still worth the time, or is it choked with fakes?
 
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Is Badoo still worth the time, or is it choked with fakes?
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That I don't know. Don't really use it, only know friends who did. But you'd be better off joining a social circle as soon as you get there, we are very welcoming to foreigners. If you're outgoing and not ****y you'll have no problems making friends. Plus, Mexican girls like gringos. :)
 
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Im a mexican and of course I can help you but first of all with city are you moving?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Im a mexican and of course I can help you but first of all with city are you moving?
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Guadalajara.
 
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Guadalajara.
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Ok you are in luck, tons of hot girls there. A little bit more on the conservative side so don't expect a lot of ONS. Tinder might actually work there, can't guarantee it though.
 
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Guadalajara.
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Tinder and Happn are a good option, also you can go to "La Santa" is a nightclub with hot babes. You can visit also Mexico City with a lot of places to meet girls.
 
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Ok you are in luck, tons of hot girls there. A little bit more on the conservative side so don't expect a lot of ONS. Tinder might actually work there, can't guarantee it though.
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Yeah man that's what I hear...I don't mind waiting a bit if the quality is good.

If I can make some Mexican friends I should be ok.
 
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