"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dating/Social sites in Mexico?

Leporello

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So I'll be moving to Mexico in a few months and I was wondering what sites a are good for meeting girls.

I've checked out the more well-known dating sites (amor.com, MexicanCupid etc) and they seem to have like 15 active members in a given area.

Is online dating not really a thing in Mexico? That's fine, but I was hoping to hit the ground running when I arrive there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Leporello said:
So I'll be moving to Mexico in a few months and I was wondering what sites a are good for meeting girls.

I've checked out the more well-known dating sites (amor.com, MexicanCupid etc) and they seem to have like 15 active members in a given area.

Is online dating not really a thing in Mexico? That's fine, but I was hoping to hit the ground running when I arrive there.
As you say, online dating sites are not really a thing there. You'll have more luck (finding more girls, that is) with apps like badoo or tinder, and then it depends where you go to. In very few cities you'll find someone above a 4 or 5 via online dating.
 

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aim22 said:
As you say, online dating sites are not really a thing there. You'll have more luck (finding more girls, that is) with apps like badoo or tinder, and then it depends where you go to. In very few cities you'll find someone above a 4 or 5 via online dating.
Is Badoo still worth the time, or is it choked with fakes?
 

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Is Badoo still worth the time, or is it choked with fakes?
That I don't know. Don't really use it, only know friends who did. But you'd be better off joining a social circle as soon as you get there, we are very welcoming to foreigners. If you're outgoing and not ****y you'll have no problems making friends. Plus, Mexican girls like gringos. :)
 

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Im a mexican and of course I can help you but first of all with city are you moving?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Casillas said:
Im a mexican and of course I can help you but first of all with city are you moving?
Guadalajara.
 

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Guadalajara.
Ok you are in luck, tons of hot girls there. A little bit more on the conservative side so don't expect a lot of ONS. Tinder might actually work there, can't guarantee it though.
 

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Guadalajara.
Tinder and Happn are a good option, also you can go to "La Santa" is a nightclub with hot babes. You can visit also Mexico City with a lot of places to meet girls.
 

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Ok you are in luck, tons of hot girls there. A little bit more on the conservative side so don't expect a lot of ONS. Tinder might actually work there, can't guarantee it though.
Yeah man that's what I hear...I don't mind waiting a bit if the quality is good.

If I can make some Mexican friends I should be ok.
 
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