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Dating/Social sites in Mexico?

Leporello

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So I'll be moving to Mexico in a few months and I was wondering what sites a are good for meeting girls.

I've checked out the more well-known dating sites (amor.com, MexicanCupid etc) and they seem to have like 15 active members in a given area.

Is online dating not really a thing in Mexico? That's fine, but I was hoping to hit the ground running when I arrive there.
 

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Leporello said:
So I'll be moving to Mexico in a few months and I was wondering what sites a are good for meeting girls.

I've checked out the more well-known dating sites (amor.com, MexicanCupid etc) and they seem to have like 15 active members in a given area.

Is online dating not really a thing in Mexico? That's fine, but I was hoping to hit the ground running when I arrive there.
As you say, online dating sites are not really a thing there. You'll have more luck (finding more girls, that is) with apps like badoo or tinder, and then it depends where you go to. In very few cities you'll find someone above a 4 or 5 via online dating.
 

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aim22 said:
As you say, online dating sites are not really a thing there. You'll have more luck (finding more girls, that is) with apps like badoo or tinder, and then it depends where you go to. In very few cities you'll find someone above a 4 or 5 via online dating.
Is Badoo still worth the time, or is it choked with fakes?
 

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Is Badoo still worth the time, or is it choked with fakes?
That I don't know. Don't really use it, only know friends who did. But you'd be better off joining a social circle as soon as you get there, we are very welcoming to foreigners. If you're outgoing and not ****y you'll have no problems making friends. Plus, Mexican girls like gringos. :)
 

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Im a mexican and of course I can help you but first of all with city are you moving?
 

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Casillas said:
Im a mexican and of course I can help you but first of all with city are you moving?
Guadalajara.
 

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Guadalajara.
Ok you are in luck, tons of hot girls there. A little bit more on the conservative side so don't expect a lot of ONS. Tinder might actually work there, can't guarantee it though.
 

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Guadalajara.
Tinder and Happn are a good option, also you can go to "La Santa" is a nightclub with hot babes. You can visit also Mexico City with a lot of places to meet girls.
 

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Ok you are in luck, tons of hot girls there. A little bit more on the conservative side so don't expect a lot of ONS. Tinder might actually work there, can't guarantee it though.
Yeah man that's what I hear...I don't mind waiting a bit if the quality is good.

If I can make some Mexican friends I should be ok.
 
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