"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dating outside of your race
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
I agree with Amante, there could be some cultural difference wich could lead to a different behavior but besides that its just a color not a total different specie...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Son of anarchy
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A middle eastern man wont feel good with an american woman because he expect her to cook while she expect him to help not,because they have a different skin color.
MisterMcGee
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Well I'm not into black or indian chicks. Sue me. My penis has a mind of its own.
Better yet, lets start talking about how people discriminate against ugly people. We should date and fvck girls we aren't attracted to, or else we're discriminators.
Better yet, do you date men? Why not? Are you sexist?
Better yet, have you screwed your pet dog yet? Why not?
Better yet, your left hand is feeling lonely. You're a right hand supremacist, aren't you!
LostAndConfused
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+1LostAndConfused said:Püssy is püssy, I don't discriminate.
Its all the same to me, if she is attractive go for it and just see where it ends! Get some new expierence!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Different cultures have different rituals and practices. They have different foods and behavioural norms and values. It's not always going to be the case but you'll run into it eventually.
Frankly it's not an issue. I always say 'you are dating the girl, not her [parents/culture/brothers/friends]'