"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dating outside of your race
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
I agree with Amante, there could be some cultural difference wich could lead to a different behavior but besides that its just a color not a total different specie...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Son of anarchy
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A middle eastern man wont feel good with an american woman because he expect her to cook while she expect him to help not,because they have a different skin color.
MisterMcGee
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Well I'm not into black or indian chicks. Sue me. My penis has a mind of its own.
Better yet, lets start talking about how people discriminate against ugly people. We should date and fvck girls we aren't attracted to, or else we're discriminators.
Better yet, do you date men? Why not? Are you sexist?
Better yet, have you screwed your pet dog yet? Why not?
Better yet, your left hand is feeling lonely. You're a right hand supremacist, aren't you!
LostAndConfused
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+1LostAndConfused said:Püssy is püssy, I don't discriminate.
Its all the same to me, if she is attractive go for it and just see where it ends! Get some new expierence!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Different cultures have different rituals and practices. They have different foods and behavioural norms and values. It's not always going to be the case but you'll run into it eventually.
Frankly it's not an issue. I always say 'you are dating the girl, not her [parents/culture/brothers/friends]'