Dating multiple women... pros and cons

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: The only real "con"

Originally posted by Bonhomme
The only real 'con" to dating multiple women is if 2 or more of them are more-or-less in a "dead heat," and things are getting pretty intimate. Then it can be difficult to choose.

Huh??? ???? If a couple are in a dead heat and things are getting intimate, you pick the better lay!

 

[Tha Realnezz]

It's the idea of juggling dozens of women that is killing these boys.

If one has the innate natural ability to do that he wouldn't be on-line menstrauting asking the dumbest questions and lashing out against women like a lil' *****.

I just think most guys don't have what it takes and the rest are going crazy ,breaking their backs trynna live up to fantasy world created by the first bacth of posters.

Alot of guys wanna live that DJ life..but if you're already deep into your 20's or 30's...don't you think it would've come to you before?

Guys need to live their own life instead of asking everyone what to do... instead of conforming to some self-adjusting philosphy..figure things out by yourself.

That's what's going on most cats wanna get laid but their told that's not what's it about and their over-complicating their whole life by trynna be Superman.

 

[Bonhomme]

Really, Francisco?

Huh??? ???? If a couple are in a dead heat and things are getting intimate, you pick the better lay!

Was that a joke, Francisco? There are so many more things to a gal, and sometimes even how good a lay they are is an apples vs. oranges thing.

Depends what you want. For example, if given a choice between a gal who occasionally smokes who's a slightly better lay than a more compatible non-smoker, I'd go with the more compatible non-smoker. That would be an easy one to resolve, because there's a good reason.

This spring I chose a gal who had a sky-high interest level over another who I was more attracted to. Took the bird in the hand over 1.5 who might have stayed in the trees.

But my real point was that there are pretty much all "pros" to multiple dating... The problem is in managing to have more than one gal you're interested in that's also interested in you. I'm pretty picky as far as chemistry goes.

For me, it's usually several or zero. Right now, the only gal who really appears interested in me is one I have little interest in, and haven't called, though she gave me her # without my asking for it. Another booty possibility is a long-distance gal that plans to visit next month, but long distance doesn't count.

Feast or famine...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: Really, Francisco?

Originally posted by Bonhomme
Was that a joke, Francisco? There are so many more things to a gal, and sometimes even how good a lay they are is an apples vs. oranges thing.

Depends what you want. For example, if given a choice between a gal who occasionally smokes who's a slightly better lay than a more compatible non-smoker, I'd go with the more compatible non-smoker. That would be an easy one to resolve, because there's a good reason.

This spring I chose a gal who had a sky-high interest level over another who I was more attracted to. Took the bird in the hand over 1.5 who might have stayed in the trees.

But my real point was that there are pretty much all "pros" to multiple dating... The problem is in managing to have more than one gal you're interested in that's also interested in you. I'm pretty picky as far as chemistry goes.

For me, it's usually several or zero. Right now, the only gal who really appears interested in me is one I have little interest in, and haven't called, though she gave me her # without my asking for it. Another booty possibility is a long-distance gal that plans to visit next month, but long distance doesn't count.

Feast or famine...

They are in a 'dead heat,' equal in all ways... Both have the same qualities which you enjoy, how else would you choose?

 

[Bonhomme]

OK, I see

Got you now, toss-up goes to the better lay ... unless that is an apples vs. oranges toss-up.

But again, it's a rhetorical point. The winner has always made herself clear. So, for practical purposes there are no cons to multiple dating.

On that note, time to go and get a bit of rest before hitting the club.

 

[Panda 2000]

A local guy once said:
"When you have too many women you have too few and when you have one that's one too many"