Technical1
Senior Don Juan
I'm gonna give this approach a try.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dating is for Losers
- Thread starter Don Ronny
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It's all about your frame and how you interact with her. You can do the most mundane thing and still be successful because your personality makes you stand out. Sure, if you're a boring guy, doing strange things instead of "dates" will create an illusion that you're not so boring...for a while. Just sayin.
Edit: just realized this thread is 6 years old.
Edit: just realized this thread is 6 years old.
Well I'll be a sunuva*****. With the exception of the clothing changes I did exactly this a few months ago and it got me laid in record time. So freaking obvious now but I had no idea that's what was working for me.Here's a REALLY good thing to do. It's ****ing $MONEY$.
Make YOUR place the Day2 base of operations. Meet there, kino, go to your activity (walking, playground, etc), go back home, escalate kino, change clothes, go to your next activity, go back home, escalate kino even more, change clothes, go to your final activity, and then take her home and **** her. (Credit Styles).
EVERY TIME you go on an activity AND when you go home acts as a MINI-DATE. So in ONE DAY, you've taken her out THREE TIMES (which a lot of girls say they only put out on the THIRD DATE, HAHAHAAHAHA!).
Oh you can bet that will become standard operating procedure. Great bump.
johnca2010
Don Juan
Don Ronny said:A brief list of places I have taken my girls on our first "date"
- Laundromat- Post Office
- Supermarket
- Clothing Store
- Pharmacy (to buy condoms)
- Pet Store (Awwwww look at the lil puppy-wuppy! Now suck my d!ck b!tch!)
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LOL holy sh*t this is great. Man I gota try this. I'm a big advocate of CHEAP dates (I always go to my local dive OR get some coupons off of LivingSocial for hella cheap dates) but there's no games with you! Good job.
Alchemystic
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Yes, dates are for losers but the important things is that these "losers" are able to break barriers! When they date, they break barriers. Barriers in approaching women, in talking with women. Breaking their mindsets and fear. That is the point why they have to go out on a date first. If they had the highest DJ skill then they can forget the dating part and jump on to sex but the very fact they don't means that they have to start with baby steps first to "Break their Barriers" Please re-read POOK's threads first before you go mentioning about dating as being for losers.
Yes, dating is set in a frame to portray a woman as having more value traditionally but we all gotta start off somewhere! Losers start from dating and let them do it as a way to "Break Barriers" Geezzz!!!
Read all the thousands of threads especially the archives before you make arrogant comment!
Yes, dating is set in a frame to portray a woman as having more value traditionally but we all gotta start off somewhere! Losers start from dating and let them do it as a way to "Break Barriers" Geezzz!!!
Read all the thousands of threads especially the archives before you make arrogant comment!
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