Technical1
Senior Don Juan
I'm gonna give this approach a try.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dating is for Losers
- Thread starter Don Ronny
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It's all about your frame and how you interact with her. You can do the most mundane thing and still be successful because your personality makes you stand out. Sure, if you're a boring guy, doing strange things instead of "dates" will create an illusion that you're not so boring...for a while. Just sayin.
Edit: just realized this thread is 6 years old.
Edit: just realized this thread is 6 years old.
Well I'll be a sunuva*****. With the exception of the clothing changes I did exactly this a few months ago and it got me laid in record time. So freaking obvious now but I had no idea that's what was working for me.Here's a REALLY good thing to do. It's ****ing $MONEY$.
Make YOUR place the Day2 base of operations. Meet there, kino, go to your activity (walking, playground, etc), go back home, escalate kino, change clothes, go to your next activity, go back home, escalate kino even more, change clothes, go to your final activity, and then take her home and **** her. (Credit Styles).
EVERY TIME you go on an activity AND when you go home acts as a MINI-DATE. So in ONE DAY, you've taken her out THREE TIMES (which a lot of girls say they only put out on the THIRD DATE, HAHAHAAHAHA!).
Oh you can bet that will become standard operating procedure. Great bump.
johnca2010
Don Juan
Don Ronny said:A brief list of places I have taken my girls on our first "date"
- Laundromat- Post Office
- Supermarket
- Clothing Store
- Pharmacy (to buy condoms)
- Pet Store (Awwwww look at the lil puppy-wuppy! Now suck my d!ck b!tch!)
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LOL holy sh*t this is great. Man I gota try this. I'm a big advocate of CHEAP dates (I always go to my local dive OR get some coupons off of LivingSocial for hella cheap dates) but there's no games with you! Good job.
Alchemystic
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Yes, dates are for losers but the important things is that these "losers" are able to break barriers! When they date, they break barriers. Barriers in approaching women, in talking with women. Breaking their mindsets and fear. That is the point why they have to go out on a date first. If they had the highest DJ skill then they can forget the dating part and jump on to sex but the very fact they don't means that they have to start with baby steps first to "Break their Barriers" Please re-read POOK's threads first before you go mentioning about dating as being for losers.
Yes, dating is set in a frame to portray a woman as having more value traditionally but we all gotta start off somewhere! Losers start from dating and let them do it as a way to "Break Barriers" Geezzz!!!
Read all the thousands of threads especially the archives before you make arrogant comment!
Yes, dating is set in a frame to portray a woman as having more value traditionally but we all gotta start off somewhere! Losers start from dating and let them do it as a way to "Break Barriers" Geezzz!!!
Read all the thousands of threads especially the archives before you make arrogant comment!
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