Technical1
Senior Don Juan
I'm gonna give this approach a try.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dating is for Losers
- Thread starter Don Ronny
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It's all about your frame and how you interact with her. You can do the most mundane thing and still be successful because your personality makes you stand out. Sure, if you're a boring guy, doing strange things instead of "dates" will create an illusion that you're not so boring...for a while. Just sayin.
Edit: just realized this thread is 6 years old.
Edit: just realized this thread is 6 years old.
Well I'll be a sunuva*****. With the exception of the clothing changes I did exactly this a few months ago and it got me laid in record time. So freaking obvious now but I had no idea that's what was working for me.Here's a REALLY good thing to do. It's ****ing $MONEY$.
Make YOUR place the Day2 base of operations. Meet there, kino, go to your activity (walking, playground, etc), go back home, escalate kino, change clothes, go to your next activity, go back home, escalate kino even more, change clothes, go to your final activity, and then take her home and **** her. (Credit Styles).
EVERY TIME you go on an activity AND when you go home acts as a MINI-DATE. So in ONE DAY, you've taken her out THREE TIMES (which a lot of girls say they only put out on the THIRD DATE, HAHAHAAHAHA!).
Oh you can bet that will become standard operating procedure. Great bump.
johnca2010
Don Juan
Don Ronny said:A brief list of places I have taken my girls on our first "date"
- Laundromat- Post Office
- Supermarket
- Clothing Store
- Pharmacy (to buy condoms)
- Pet Store (Awwwww look at the lil puppy-wuppy! Now suck my d!ck b!tch!)
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LOL holy sh*t this is great. Man I gota try this. I'm a big advocate of CHEAP dates (I always go to my local dive OR get some coupons off of LivingSocial for hella cheap dates) but there's no games with you! Good job.
Alchemystic
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Yes, dates are for losers but the important things is that these "losers" are able to break barriers! When they date, they break barriers. Barriers in approaching women, in talking with women. Breaking their mindsets and fear. That is the point why they have to go out on a date first. If they had the highest DJ skill then they can forget the dating part and jump on to sex but the very fact they don't means that they have to start with baby steps first to "Break their Barriers" Please re-read POOK's threads first before you go mentioning about dating as being for losers.
Yes, dating is set in a frame to portray a woman as having more value traditionally but we all gotta start off somewhere! Losers start from dating and let them do it as a way to "Break Barriers" Geezzz!!!
Read all the thousands of threads especially the archives before you make arrogant comment!
Yes, dating is set in a frame to portray a woman as having more value traditionally but we all gotta start off somewhere! Losers start from dating and let them do it as a way to "Break Barriers" Geezzz!!!
Read all the thousands of threads especially the archives before you make arrogant comment!
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