Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
What are your thoughts on this one.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Completely agree, you'll have a small chunk of guys as the haves and everyone else as the have nots.Who Dares Win said:It will happens the same that is happening in the economic field, those who are rich will become richer and those who are poor will become even poorer.
There will be the most racist society seen from the slavery times, except that this time it wont be race to count but your position in the social field, there will be alphas and upper betas at the top followed from the almost totality of women and at the bottom the majority of men who lacks what it needs to be successful in the renewed game.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You just described my life perfectly. I'm 35, dating a 22 year old, and have women in their mid 20s chomping at the bit to get with me. I've already turned down a women for sex this month, and it's only a week old. Older guys are going to have it made.Desdinova said:With the emo / metrosexual boys turning into men, women are going to be much more lost when it comes to finding a strong, confident man. It will become much more common to see an older man with a much younger woman. The failure rate of marriage will continue to climb.
Any guy who can transform himself into an alpha male after being raised in a society of feminine men will find himself with many, many women at his disposal.
I'm gonna say to the OP, I'm assuming that the future means 10 years from now.Desdinova said:With the emo / metrosexual boys turning into men, women are going to be much more lost when it comes to finding a strong, confident man. It will become much more common to see an older man with a much younger woman. The failure rate of marriage will continue to climb.
Any guy who can transform himself into an alpha male after being raised in a society of feminine men will find himself with many, many women at his disposal.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.