Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
What are your thoughts on this one.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Completely agree, you'll have a small chunk of guys as the haves and everyone else as the have nots.Who Dares Win said:It will happens the same that is happening in the economic field, those who are rich will become richer and those who are poor will become even poorer.
There will be the most racist society seen from the slavery times, except that this time it wont be race to count but your position in the social field, there will be alphas and upper betas at the top followed from the almost totality of women and at the bottom the majority of men who lacks what it needs to be successful in the renewed game.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You just described my life perfectly. I'm 35, dating a 22 year old, and have women in their mid 20s chomping at the bit to get with me. I've already turned down a women for sex this month, and it's only a week old. Older guys are going to have it made.Desdinova said:With the emo / metrosexual boys turning into men, women are going to be much more lost when it comes to finding a strong, confident man. It will become much more common to see an older man with a much younger woman. The failure rate of marriage will continue to climb.
Any guy who can transform himself into an alpha male after being raised in a society of feminine men will find himself with many, many women at his disposal.
I'm gonna say to the OP, I'm assuming that the future means 10 years from now.Desdinova said:With the emo / metrosexual boys turning into men, women are going to be much more lost when it comes to finding a strong, confident man. It will become much more common to see an older man with a much younger woman. The failure rate of marriage will continue to climb.
Any guy who can transform himself into an alpha male after being raised in a society of feminine men will find himself with many, many women at his disposal.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.