Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
What are your thoughts on this one.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Completely agree, you'll have a small chunk of guys as the haves and everyone else as the have nots.Who Dares Win said:It will happens the same that is happening in the economic field, those who are rich will become richer and those who are poor will become even poorer.
There will be the most racist society seen from the slavery times, except that this time it wont be race to count but your position in the social field, there will be alphas and upper betas at the top followed from the almost totality of women and at the bottom the majority of men who lacks what it needs to be successful in the renewed game.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You just described my life perfectly. I'm 35, dating a 22 year old, and have women in their mid 20s chomping at the bit to get with me. I've already turned down a women for sex this month, and it's only a week old. Older guys are going to have it made.Desdinova said:With the emo / metrosexual boys turning into men, women are going to be much more lost when it comes to finding a strong, confident man. It will become much more common to see an older man with a much younger woman. The failure rate of marriage will continue to climb.
Any guy who can transform himself into an alpha male after being raised in a society of feminine men will find himself with many, many women at his disposal.
I'm gonna say to the OP, I'm assuming that the future means 10 years from now.Desdinova said:With the emo / metrosexual boys turning into men, women are going to be much more lost when it comes to finding a strong, confident man. It will become much more common to see an older man with a much younger woman. The failure rate of marriage will continue to climb.
Any guy who can transform himself into an alpha male after being raised in a society of feminine men will find himself with many, many women at his disposal.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.