"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dating HB 9 and up?

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well i have some thing to say about this issue its because ive noticed that everybody here is just obsessed over dating HB 9 and up .
if i could tell you there are 6-8 women that would make great wives you just have to know how to weed through them .

what i have to say is this if you persue a HB 9 how will you know if she is the kind of woman you want she will probably be asking too much of you and expecting to be treated in a special way . i think date the 6-8 first then date the HB 9 there is such a big difference in personality and overall expectancies from either women "beauty is not what society tells you ok " it is what you fell comfortable with and if you are comfortable with a 5 then that is your decision not theirs not this sites and no ones but yours ok . just dont let us and society tell you what you like or who you should date .

for me i am still learning but this was just a thought for all those newbies and djs that are frustrated because of societicall norms and our male ego to have the hottest chick in town . go against the tides and it will reward you eternally.:D
 

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I agree with you. There are a lot of mediocre looking girls out there with banging personalities. And yes, a lot of the guys need to stop obsessing with 9's and 10's.

However, a lot of guys are younger than you. You're 26 and you are or are close to the point in your life when you have to settle down. There are a lot of immature guys like me (i'm 18, in college) who have this sex drive that makes them focus on these 9's and 10's.

Personally, I can't date a female below a 7 or 8 because the physical attraction has to be there.
 
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