"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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dating HB 9 and up?

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well i have some thing to say about this issue its because ive noticed that everybody here is just obsessed over dating HB 9 and up .
if i could tell you there are 6-8 women that would make great wives you just have to know how to weed through them .

what i have to say is this if you persue a HB 9 how will you know if she is the kind of woman you want she will probably be asking too much of you and expecting to be treated in a special way . i think date the 6-8 first then date the HB 9 there is such a big difference in personality and overall expectancies from either women "beauty is not what society tells you ok " it is what you fell comfortable with and if you are comfortable with a 5 then that is your decision not theirs not this sites and no ones but yours ok . just dont let us and society tell you what you like or who you should date .

for me i am still learning but this was just a thought for all those newbies and djs that are frustrated because of societicall norms and our male ego to have the hottest chick in town . go against the tides and it will reward you eternally.:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I agree with you. There are a lot of mediocre looking girls out there with banging personalities. And yes, a lot of the guys need to stop obsessing with 9's and 10's.

However, a lot of guys are younger than you. You're 26 and you are or are close to the point in your life when you have to settle down. There are a lot of immature guys like me (i'm 18, in college) who have this sex drive that makes them focus on these 9's and 10's.

Personally, I can't date a female below a 7 or 8 because the physical attraction has to be there.
 
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