"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Dating Girls With Money

Disco

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Girls from money with guys who aren't. Possible?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BADA-BING

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Yes it is possible. My best friend is marrying a girl who is dripping with money,well at least daddy is anyway. She pays for just about everything.............Must be nice, huh!........

When I introduced them 3 yrs ago, I never thought in a million years that she would get with him.

She recently told me that she liked him so much because he was the "Bad boy" and brought alot of excitment into her life.
 

dietzcoi

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....Once again confirming everything we learn here...

Be the "Bad boy"!!!

Dietzcoi
 

Beethoven

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Hey well everyone knows money's not everything... but it is SOMEthing. So a girl will money will date a guy without money if he's able to provide something else:

* Excitement (bad boy)
* Passion and artistic talent
* Raw good looks
* Fame
* etc etc
 

backbreaker

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Money is just that. Money. Anyone who sees it for more than it is is as superficial as the stuck up people who think that they are better people because they are lucky enough to have it.

First, if you are dating girl who has money and makes a big deal out of it, that's not the girl you need to be dating in the first place.

I do well for myself, and when I was young I was, well, young. My mom was well off, but wasn't by any means loaded. I have dated 2 girls who were from well to do families. One made a bid deal out of it, and I got tired of it and left. The other was as cool as the other side of the pillow. Never even came up. she understood that SHE didn't make the money, therefore she wasn't any better than I was because her parents did good for themselves.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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