"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dating Girls With Money

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Disco

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Girls from money with guys who aren't. Possible?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes it is possible. My best friend is marrying a girl who is dripping with money,well at least daddy is anyway. She pays for just about everything.............Must be nice, huh!........

When I introduced them 3 yrs ago, I never thought in a million years that she would get with him.

She recently told me that she liked him so much because he was the "Bad boy" and brought alot of excitment into her life.
 
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....Once again confirming everything we learn here...

Be the "Bad boy"!!!

Dietzcoi
 
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Hey well everyone knows money's not everything... but it is SOMEthing. So a girl will money will date a guy without money if he's able to provide something else:

* Excitement (bad boy)
* Passion and artistic talent
* Raw good looks
* Fame
* etc etc
 
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Money is just that. Money. Anyone who sees it for more than it is is as superficial as the stuck up people who think that they are better people because they are lucky enough to have it.

First, if you are dating girl who has money and makes a big deal out of it, that's not the girl you need to be dating in the first place.

I do well for myself, and when I was young I was, well, young. My mom was well off, but wasn't by any means loaded. I have dated 2 girls who were from well to do families. One made a bid deal out of it, and I got tired of it and left. The other was as cool as the other side of the pillow. Never even came up. she understood that SHE didn't make the money, therefore she wasn't any better than I was because her parents did good for themselves.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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