"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dating Girls With Money

Disco

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Girls from money with guys who aren't. Possible?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BADA-BING

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Yes it is possible. My best friend is marrying a girl who is dripping with money,well at least daddy is anyway. She pays for just about everything.............Must be nice, huh!........

When I introduced them 3 yrs ago, I never thought in a million years that she would get with him.

She recently told me that she liked him so much because he was the "Bad boy" and brought alot of excitment into her life.
 

dietzcoi

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....Once again confirming everything we learn here...

Be the "Bad boy"!!!

Dietzcoi
 

Beethoven

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Hey well everyone knows money's not everything... but it is SOMEthing. So a girl will money will date a guy without money if he's able to provide something else:

* Excitement (bad boy)
* Passion and artistic talent
* Raw good looks
* Fame
* etc etc
 

backbreaker

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Money is just that. Money. Anyone who sees it for more than it is is as superficial as the stuck up people who think that they are better people because they are lucky enough to have it.

First, if you are dating girl who has money and makes a big deal out of it, that's not the girl you need to be dating in the first place.

I do well for myself, and when I was young I was, well, young. My mom was well off, but wasn't by any means loaded. I have dated 2 girls who were from well to do families. One made a bid deal out of it, and I got tired of it and left. The other was as cool as the other side of the pillow. Never even came up. she understood that SHE didn't make the money, therefore she wasn't any better than I was because her parents did good for themselves.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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