lifemisspent
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What's the DJ protocol on this type of stuff ?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dating for two weeks, should I buy her something for x-mas ?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If you don't want to, then don't. Always make moves from your deepest instinct. If your gut says its too soon but you feel "pressure" to do so, examine where that pressure is coming from. Is it because you feel that you owe her since you are dating/sexing her? Just because it's christmas? Dating is it's own reward...you don't have to pay to play.
If you feel you want to just from a core of selflessness, and because you just really want to, follow biggies advices. 2 weeks, you really don't even know her..you just like the idea of her so don't go overboard, something small.
If you feel you want to just from a core of selflessness, and because you just really want to, follow biggies advices. 2 weeks, you really don't even know her..you just like the idea of her so don't go overboard, something small.
sketchy
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dont feel you 'have to' because its xmas, and if you do, something small without too much meaning behind it.
teacha
Senior Don Juan
is she buying you one?
Anyways, you've been dating for ONLY two weeks only so my advice is NO dont buy her one instead just give her a call or send a text message just saying,'merry christmas.'
Anyways, you've been dating for ONLY two weeks only so my advice is NO dont buy her one instead just give her a call or send a text message just saying,'merry christmas.'
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
AlmostThere!
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No, don't buy her a Christmas present. And typing x-mas saves 5 letters. Wow. Unless you're anti-God and don't want to spell Christ.
lifemisspent
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We were talking for about 2 weeks until we finally went out in person, last night she came over for a fourth date and things went pretty well. Up until yesterday I would have said no, but Im gonna try to find her something small I guess. Im pretty sure she is getting me something, she hinted at it.
We were talking for about 2 weeks until we finally went out in person, last night she came over for a fourth date and things went pretty well. Up until yesterday I would have said no, but Im gonna try to find her something small I guess. Im pretty sure she is getting me something, she hinted at it.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
