I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
whats LTR?PeterNorthisawesome said:Problem is once you do anything with her it spreads like crazy and if your manager finds out... ITS BAD! you can get fired for it. I try not to flirt with any of my coworkers but can't help it cuz there's like 20 HBs! one girl is an attention ***** though she flirts/kino EVERYGUY (including me) at work... which gets annoying. O well make sure if you have a LTR and it doesn't work your ready to leave cuz it'll be VERY awkward.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
THanksSean O said:whats LTR?
LTR stands for long term relationship.
I didnt think you could get fired for dating co-workers. I know that dating managers was a big noPeterNorthisawesome said:Problem is once you do anything with her it spreads like crazy and if your manager finds out... ITS BAD! you can get fired for it. I try not to flirt with any of my coworkers but can't help it cuz there's like 20 HBs! one girl is an attention ***** though she flirts/kino EVERYGUY (including me) at work... which gets annoying. O well make sure if you have a LTR and it doesn't work your ready to leave cuz it'll be VERY awkward.
Yea the girl i mentioned above seems pretty cool, but I want to make sure Im not analyzing. Of course worrying about doing that might be an AFC thing to doEmbrace said:Careful having LTR with co-workers. A chick friend/ co-worker of mine was with one of the managers at a grocery store I work at.. everything is really ****ty between them now. Him being the manager really has no control over her at the workplace because she'll punish him outside of work.
It just makes things weird, thats why you get fired if you're going out with anyone at the workplace.. its not a good idea.
But do whatever you want to do, depending on where yo uwork, make sure the no one knows so you dont get in trouble
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.