"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dating Blacks

ANIRBAN

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Sorry for wrting the word black..as I dont know her nationality..I have my first black date this eveninng..and since I stayed in Nigeria during my school days..I have developed a fascination for them..she is two years older than me and divroced...its from the internet but we did talk on the phone just to set up an appointment onely..as per the system

Any tips on older black women who is divroced..please hurry have to start within an hour..thanks..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by evolvingnerd
rofl
it's not really as if blacks are aliens
just use any other DJ tools u would with someone else
I liked the term "Black Date." I guess it's alright sense you can have a "Blind Date." Thank heavens we have labels because without them, there would only be dates... That would be too d@mn boring... :p
 

Sexual

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Women are women, bro. Use DJ seduction techniques and she'll get wet panties over you in no time. Doesn't matter if she's divorced, happy, sad, or doesn't speak English. Just play your cards right and keep her interest level up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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