"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Dating Blacks

ANIRBAN

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Sorry for wrting the word black..as I dont know her nationality..I have my first black date this eveninng..and since I stayed in Nigeria during my school days..I have developed a fascination for them..she is two years older than me and divroced...its from the internet but we did talk on the phone just to set up an appointment onely..as per the system

Any tips on older black women who is divroced..please hurry have to start within an hour..thanks..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by evolvingnerd
rofl
it's not really as if blacks are aliens
just use any other DJ tools u would with someone else
I liked the term "Black Date." I guess it's alright sense you can have a "Blind Date." Thank heavens we have labels because without them, there would only be dates... That would be too d@mn boring... :p
 

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Women are women, bro. Use DJ seduction techniques and she'll get wet panties over you in no time. Doesn't matter if she's divorced, happy, sad, or doesn't speak English. Just play your cards right and keep her interest level up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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