Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
phoenix_rising said:Hi all,
If you had sex with a girl after a few dates, is the girl gonna think that you become her bf just because you had sex with her?
~pr
Its very possible, but ultimately its depends on the girl. Plenty of women too have a ONS mindset too (or, like to play the field with multiple men). Don't believe me, ask LMS.phoenix_rising said:Hi all,
If you had sex with a girl after a few dates, is the girl gonna think that you become her bf just because you had sex with her?
~pr
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Good advice. After you have sex you might in the next few days want to communicate your expectations. Every situation is different and needs to be felt out.STR8UP said:You gotta be careful of that "implied boyfriend" thing. If that isn't what you want you have to somehow make it known cause chicks will assume things and then before you know it you DO have a g/f.
I don't think so. If you haven't had "the talk" your pretty much free to see other people. It might even be a good idea to give her a heads up early on and tell her that you are seeing other people. That way she can't accuse you of cheating.phoenix_rising said:I hear a lot of you talk about spinning plates. So the girl you had sex with think you become her bf. So then you go out and spin more plates and have sex with some other girl. Wouldn't that make you a cheater?
phoenix_rising said:Hi all,
If you had sex with a girl after a few dates, is the girl gonna think that you become her bf just because you had sex with her?
~pr