"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dating A Sexually Abused Girl

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Collosus....you are right on. You can't fix them. My wife and I are always moving forward with our relationship. It hurts me to know what she endured, but I have just listened to her history as she has related it to me. I never tried to be her therapist. Only her husband. She appreciates that about me. I am glad she doesnt talk about it all the time. That would create some real problems. Sometime I would like to tell you what happened to her so you can see where I am coming from and explain how I have dealt with it. I am quite sure there are many men on here who have been, and are, in a relationship with a woman with a similar history. I am sorry for the 2.5 LTR that caused you so much pain. No rain, no rainbows.........
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You may be surprised to know that sexual abuse is usually not about sex. It is more about power and control. People who sexually abuse others are often insecure.
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You may need all info about this issue while dealing with this girl. It will take a lot of your time and effort. Is it worth it? What will she bring to you? Or is it all about her?

http://www.iemily.com/article-373.html
http://shrink4men.wordpress.com/2009/08/03/what-makes-your-control-freak-wife-or-girlfriend-tick/
 
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