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Dating a Nightshift Nurse

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The contributions made so far on the subject are all very interesting and valid, but i wish to present a slightly different angle.

Night shift nurses in committed relationships have the perfect cover for nefarious activities, if they wish to misbehave. Back in my mid 20s l for about 6months I was fvcking a nurse who was stuck in an unhappy relationship. She was engaged to her boyfriend of 4years but was unhappy and looking for a way out. She used to take leave from work but not tell her fiancee. So on those leave dates she’d put on her uniform as normal, jump into her car as if she’s going to work but come over to my place instead. She would spend the whole night in my bed and set her alarm for 7am, when she’d wake up and go home, as if she’s coming from work. Being a young guy, I used to get a buzz from fvcking a real nurse in a real nurse’s uniform.

If you date a nurse or any professional who works night shifts, be prepared for the above-mentioned possibility.

Thank you.
Seems like the consensus is to not take this woman serious. And I'm good with that. She seemed like the party type when I met her so that helps keep things in perspective.
 

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Depends which specialty....

There are no women in the medical field worth dating, according to this.

Ideally, you want 8-10 hot, and 4-5 crazy.
 

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Depends which specialty....

There would not be nurses in a lot of those fields. I think this is more applicable for female doctors. In general, I recommend staying away from women with masters level degrees or higher. If you want a good girlfriend, in most cases you want a woman with a bachelor's degree or less. Her BA/BS degree should be a state university and some not elitist school.
 

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There would not be nurses in a lot of those fields. I think this is more applicable for female doctors. In general, I recommend staying away from women with masters level degrees or higher. If you want a good girlfriend, in most cases you want a woman with a bachelor's degree or less. Her BA/BS degree should be a state university and some not elitist school.
I have a Master's degree, and I agree w/ you.

I refuse to date a girl that's on the same education and income level as me.
 

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I have a Master's degree, and I agree w/ you.

I refuse to date a girl that's on the same education and income level as me.
My friend has a BA and his wife is working on getting her masters. Her attitude at home has completely changed, from what he says. She's so empowered now apparently. Boy is he in for a treat. I can practically count the days now.
 

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I have a Master's degree, and I agree w/ you.

I refuse to date a girl that's on the same education and income level as me.
I have a master's degree as well.

We feel the same way.

Against my better judgment, I went on a date once with a female MD. Awful. It only took me 30 minutes to see why she was divorced. I saw in 30 minutes what it took some other guy around 7 years to see. Though she was probably the one who filed for divorce.

Female nurses make good money. Nurses can have any degree from an associate level degree to a master's level.
 

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Anyone have experience? I'd like to hear your thoughts, pros/cons, etc.
YouTube Kevin Samuels list of women not to date lulz. In years prior, the women actually were more feminine and value adding. Use Google for stats on infidelity and divorce by professionals. Nurses are the female equivalent of marrying a cop or military man. Extremely high probability of high body count and infidelity not to mention divorce. They can make money fast very young and ran through by cops and ems or firemen. Hyper promiscuous. awful mate selection. Smash but assume the clocks ticking for you both.

Age range? Very young. Assume party girl. 8f elder. Trashy kill count and looking for captain phaggotry to play house with after a long time of indiscretions.

Plate her.
 

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Dear Jay,
As a Young bloke living in a group house I used have a Travelling Salesman Friend based in Sydney who visited from time to time...We would go out to have a Dance and a few Beers being married he appreciated a bit of stray,to find him a partner was easy,just rang the local Nurses Home Social Room ask if any of the Girls would appreciate a night out,rarely had problems though some of them were ugly as a Robbers Dog.
 

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I've worked graveyard shift myself and it's very taxing. You'll have a hard time setting up dates with her and she'll always be tired. Although this is true of almost all nurses regardless of them working nights.
 

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My friend has a BA and his wife is working on getting her masters. Her attitude at home has completely changed, from what he says. She's so empowered now apparently. Boy is he in for a treat. I can practically count the days now.
Insert the ari gtfo gift right hurrrrr!
Oh the things that happen between nurses that work at night... wink wink

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There are always outliers but by all means of probability, likely this won't end well.

Op, wrap it up. Assuming she's early 20s not rump roast left overs. Let it ride. Don't hold your breath. Plate her.
 

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Don't know about NIGHTSHIFT nurses... but have dated a community nurse (they used to be called 'district nurse' in UK)
The ones who travel house to house... looking after oldies, doing jabs, blood pressure testing, re-dressing wounds... etc...

Couple of great things about nurses:
1 - They're almost impossible to disgust
2 - They all have their own nurse outfits... ;)
 

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Night shift nurse. She approached me at a local bar and offered her number. So far it's been weird since she sleeps during the day so contact has been very minimal. Just wondering if it's worth pursuing.
Nurses are freaks...high chance she is banging more than one other guy at the hospital
 

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I've been dating an asian night shift registered nurse for the last 5 months. We're pretty much on the outs right now. She has a son. I have a kid, so that doesn't bother me. But, the reason it isn't working is because she literally has no time to see me between her job and son. She works different nights every week and then when she's off she can't always find someone to watch her son. She does see me whenever she can but it's just not enough for me. Sometimes we go two weeks without seeing each other.

I wouldn't recommend getting in a relationship with a night shift nurse because of there schedule but there is nothing wrong with banging one for a bit.
 

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People who prefer to work nights rather than days are not to be trusted! Just joshing but I do think a certain type is attracted to it and maybe they aren't the best at formulating relationships.
 

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I've been dating an asian night shift registered nurse for the last 5 months. We're pretty much on the outs right now. She has a son. I have a kid, so that doesn't bother me. But, the reason it isn't working is because she literally has no time to see me between her job and son. She works different nights every week and then when she's off she can't always find someone to watch her son. She does see me whenever she can but it's just not enough for me. Sometimes we go two weeks without seeing each other.

I wouldn't recommend getting in a relationship with a night shift nurse because of there schedule but there is nothing wrong with banging one for a bit.
Right on. This one doesn't have any kids so we'll see how much of her free time she'll be giving me. I'm def not thinking relationship as I'm convinced the odd hours will bother me at some point. She said she signed a 3 year contract to work the night shift.
 

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So this one is quickly becoming annoying. We spoke last Saturday and she mentioned her schedule (being new to her) has thrown her days off a lot and that it's difficult for her. I said I'd like to take her out and to let me know when her next day(s) off would be. She told me Wed - Fri. With her schedule being so jacked up, I'm under the impression she would/should be reaching out to me to let me know when she's good to get out. Or should I be following up? I just feel like I'd be chasing if I did.
 
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