"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dating a Girl You Are Not Interested In

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So here is my situation... any help would be appreciated.

Background info:
I am currently a senior in HS, and I've got some things working for me: I go to the gym, I've got lots of friends, I'm starting to understand how to be confident and stop being a nice guy. Then I got some things working against me: I'm not exactly gorgeous (I'm Asian, albeit a decent looking Asian), I've only had 1 GF before, which lasted for about 2 months, and I'm still not close to becoming a DJ.

So there is this girl who basically likes me, we were friends for some time, but never really close. She suddenly started attaching herself to me and her friends tell me she likes me. She looks nice (7 ~ 7.5) but I just don't find her dating material for some reason. I wouldn't mind banging her, but she clearly wants more than that.

Is it wrong for me to just stick around for the sexual benefits? She hasn't brought anything up, but I think she now considers us a couple. Should I just tell her straight up I'm not looking for a relationship with her, or can I just go for the ride until something better comes up? Because that's one of the reasons why I'm still willing to stick with this; I have no better option at the moment.

Thanks in advance for any suggestions/comments.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bvbidd

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You have to realize you'll only be dating girls your not interested in, as if you were they wouldn't be interested in you, as a rule.
 

Maxtro

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Do every thing you want with her but make sure she knows that you don't want to get too serious with her.

I could have had a lot more fun if I dated girls that I wasn't really interested in. Instead of not dating the girls I was interested in.
 
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