"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dating a Girl You Are Not Interested In

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So here is my situation... any help would be appreciated.

Background info:
I am currently a senior in HS, and I've got some things working for me: I go to the gym, I've got lots of friends, I'm starting to understand how to be confident and stop being a nice guy. Then I got some things working against me: I'm not exactly gorgeous (I'm Asian, albeit a decent looking Asian), I've only had 1 GF before, which lasted for about 2 months, and I'm still not close to becoming a DJ.

So there is this girl who basically likes me, we were friends for some time, but never really close. She suddenly started attaching herself to me and her friends tell me she likes me. She looks nice (7 ~ 7.5) but I just don't find her dating material for some reason. I wouldn't mind banging her, but she clearly wants more than that.

Is it wrong for me to just stick around for the sexual benefits? She hasn't brought anything up, but I think she now considers us a couple. Should I just tell her straight up I'm not looking for a relationship with her, or can I just go for the ride until something better comes up? Because that's one of the reasons why I'm still willing to stick with this; I have no better option at the moment.

Thanks in advance for any suggestions/comments.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You have to realize you'll only be dating girls your not interested in, as if you were they wouldn't be interested in you, as a rule.
 
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Do every thing you want with her but make sure she knows that you don't want to get too serious with her.

I could have had a lot more fun if I dated girls that I wasn't really interested in. Instead of not dating the girls I was interested in.
 
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