"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dating a Girl You Are Not Interested In

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So here is my situation... any help would be appreciated.

Background info:
I am currently a senior in HS, and I've got some things working for me: I go to the gym, I've got lots of friends, I'm starting to understand how to be confident and stop being a nice guy. Then I got some things working against me: I'm not exactly gorgeous (I'm Asian, albeit a decent looking Asian), I've only had 1 GF before, which lasted for about 2 months, and I'm still not close to becoming a DJ.

So there is this girl who basically likes me, we were friends for some time, but never really close. She suddenly started attaching herself to me and her friends tell me she likes me. She looks nice (7 ~ 7.5) but I just don't find her dating material for some reason. I wouldn't mind banging her, but she clearly wants more than that.

Is it wrong for me to just stick around for the sexual benefits? She hasn't brought anything up, but I think she now considers us a couple. Should I just tell her straight up I'm not looking for a relationship with her, or can I just go for the ride until something better comes up? Because that's one of the reasons why I'm still willing to stick with this; I have no better option at the moment.

Thanks in advance for any suggestions/comments.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You have to realize you'll only be dating girls your not interested in, as if you were they wouldn't be interested in you, as a rule.
 
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Do every thing you want with her but make sure she knows that you don't want to get too serious with her.

I could have had a lot more fun if I dated girls that I wasn't really interested in. Instead of not dating the girls I was interested in.
 
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