Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dating a Girl Thats Never Been Kissed

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I recently found out that the girl Im dating has never had a full blown "make out session", shes not ugly, shes 18 and just very innocent, one of those girls that youd have no problem taking home to mama. Anyways Im 22, and have at least 7 years "experience" on here, obviously shes a virgin whereas my notches are up to 11. Not sure how to handle this? Should I go in for the kill or just let her make the decision.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how you know she never been kissed?
 
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San Jose California said:
She tells him, how else?
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....and he's just supposed to automatically believe that?
 
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mtlwlu said:
I recently found out that the girl Im dating has never had a full blown "make out session", shes not ugly, shes 18 and just very innocent, one of those girls that youd have no problem taking home to mama.
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Never take people at face-value, impressions can be deceiving. I know im coming off as a pessimistic person but I believe people in general; lie. When it comes to women; i dont trust them and I always observe their actions.
 
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Don't let anyone pressure you into anything, everything will happen when the time is right for you. I'm glad I waited till I was older to have my first kiss, I wanted it to mean something and it did.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marryjohn said:
Don't let anyone pressure you into anything, everything will happen when the time is right for you. I'm glad I waited till I was older to have my first kiss, I wanted it to mean something and it did.
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Go back to loveshack! Christ all mighty! This is a MAN's forum. If you dont have anything of value to a MAN to offer, you shouldnt be posting here.
 
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