"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dating a Girl Thats Never Been Kissed

mtlwlu

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I recently found out that the girl Im dating has never had a full blown "make out session", shes not ugly, shes 18 and just very innocent, one of those girls that youd have no problem taking home to mama. Anyways Im 22, and have at least 7 years "experience" on here, obviously shes a virgin whereas my notches are up to 11. Not sure how to handle this? Should I go in for the kill or just let her make the decision.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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teacha

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how you know she never been kissed?
 

teacha

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She tells him, how else?
....and he's just supposed to automatically believe that?
 

teacha

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mtlwlu said:
I recently found out that the girl Im dating has never had a full blown "make out session", shes not ugly, shes 18 and just very innocent, one of those girls that youd have no problem taking home to mama.
Never take people at face-value, impressions can be deceiving. I know im coming off as a pessimistic person but I believe people in general; lie. When it comes to women; i dont trust them and I always observe their actions.
 

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Don't let anyone pressure you into anything, everything will happen when the time is right for you. I'm glad I waited till I was older to have my first kiss, I wanted it to mean something and it did.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marryjohn said:
Don't let anyone pressure you into anything, everything will happen when the time is right for you. I'm glad I waited till I was older to have my first kiss, I wanted it to mean something and it did.
Go back to loveshack! Christ all mighty! This is a MAN's forum. If you dont have anything of value to a MAN to offer, you shouldnt be posting here.
 
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