"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dating a Girl Thats Never Been Kissed

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I recently found out that the girl Im dating has never had a full blown "make out session", shes not ugly, shes 18 and just very innocent, one of those girls that youd have no problem taking home to mama. Anyways Im 22, and have at least 7 years "experience" on here, obviously shes a virgin whereas my notches are up to 11. Not sure how to handle this? Should I go in for the kill or just let her make the decision.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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teacha

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how you know she never been kissed?
 

teacha

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She tells him, how else?
....and he's just supposed to automatically believe that?
 

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mtlwlu said:
I recently found out that the girl Im dating has never had a full blown "make out session", shes not ugly, shes 18 and just very innocent, one of those girls that youd have no problem taking home to mama.
Never take people at face-value, impressions can be deceiving. I know im coming off as a pessimistic person but I believe people in general; lie. When it comes to women; i dont trust them and I always observe their actions.
 

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Don't let anyone pressure you into anything, everything will happen when the time is right for you. I'm glad I waited till I was older to have my first kiss, I wanted it to mean something and it did.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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marryjohn said:
Don't let anyone pressure you into anything, everything will happen when the time is right for you. I'm glad I waited till I was older to have my first kiss, I wanted it to mean something and it did.
Go back to loveshack! Christ all mighty! This is a MAN's forum. If you dont have anything of value to a MAN to offer, you shouldnt be posting here.
 
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