"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dating a Bipolar/Manic...have you?
- Thread starter FrankWank
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
http://www.dbsalliance.org/Forums/ForumRules.asp
(I know this forum because at one point I was convinced I was bipolar - was just a strong case of one-itis though)
RedPill
Master Don Juan
Let's put it this way...
When it was good, it was great. When it was bad, it was downright rotten! There was no rhyme or reason to when she'd start freaking out. Not normal chick emotions, I mean violent temper. I seriously worried in the back of my mind that she might randomly stab me or something.
I didn't even know she was bipolar cause it wasn't diagnosed, but one of her friends who was a psycology major told me what her deal was and said she's refused for years to see a doctor.
We didn't see each other very long. The moral of the story was, stay away from that s***. Unless the chick is the coolest girl of all time, takes her meds, and keeps her problem contained, it's not worth the headaches!
izza
Master Don Juan
Women with wacky emotions and self-esteem problems are so sad. God knows we can quickly learn to love them (which is why it's a good idea to avoid dating them).
Nothing is harder than leaving one of these women because they seem to need you so much, and appreciate so fully what you do. But a lot of the time you can do better, and as you start to build confidence in yourself and realize your dreams, maybe you'll start to see what I mean.
Oh and these women tend to go from needing you to disdaining you in a heartbeat, especially if you let your guard down (happened to me once, see a post in the djb about this type of women). In my experience, women like this have less capacity for stable love.
But hey, leaving them is really hard, I feel that. Anyway, all the best,
Izza
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
themanwithnoname
Senior Don Juan
I know someone that is bipolar.... and trust me.... this chick can be the nicest chick in the world, but out of nowhere, she will start to act like the biggest b!tch in the world... so like RedPill said:
stay away from that s***. Unless the chick is the coolest girl of all time, takes her meds, and keeps her problem contained, it's not worth the headaches!
Laterz...
Even if she is Bipolar/Manic, you cannot let bad behaviour slide in your book. Her mental disease is part of who she is for the better or the worse and you cannot seperate the two and see only her "good side". She is what she is and if she cannot commit herself to trying to treat her problems and getting them under control then you best get out of this relationship.
That relationship also had a deep impact on my life. After she left me, I noticed being around her I somehow was "infected" (for the better word) and for a short period of time I too became depressive and filled with anxiety and panic, while she walked away with my joy. They are like vampires, the more you spend time with them the weaker you become and the stronger they get, until they don't need you anymore and they walk away to look for another man/victim.
themanwithnoname
Senior Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Also their sex drive is very fvcked up. Sometimes she was like a deadfish when getting freaky because her pills, when she didnt take them she was a nympho tho.
I never did hit that.
DJohnson
Don Juan
LOL..who HASN'T??
More bad news: Many girls that are bipolar are also insomniacs.
Now i don't know about you, but I wouldn't keep any sharp knives laying about in the kitchen while I was sleeping.