It seems like I have done everything with this girl except go on a date with her she said she would go out on a date with me but neither one of us have a car so basically i'm screwed so how do you have a date without a car
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Date Without a car
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
InsidiousNstinct
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Meet at a park....
Meet at a resturant...
Just meet her somewhere, aslong as you get to hang out and be with her who really cares if you go out on an "offical date."
Sounds like to me your doing good without taking her out
Meet at a resturant...
Just meet her somewhere, aslong as you get to hang out and be with her who really cares if you go out on an "offical date."
Sounds like to me your doing good without taking her out
OrlandoDaHash
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I was in the same situation. On one hand it's pathetic but on the other it's kind of romantic.... like you two would like to come together but can't... there is something stopping you.. and you need to overcome this obstacle in the name of Love. It ads to the excitement of seduction and excitement is highly valuable here.
Now as for the car-less getting there date ideas: share a cab, share a bus, ask a friend to drop you off and pick you up, go with a bike, take a walk, rent a car (maybe even a limo), etc.
Now as for the car-less getting there date ideas: share a cab, share a bus, ask a friend to drop you off and pick you up, go with a bike, take a walk, rent a car (maybe even a limo), etc.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Smooth as Anything
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No? C'mon man, give me a ****ing break